There are those who save heartfelt greetings and
gracious manners for just one or two days of the
year. Some assume a kind of superficial veneer
for special occasions, such as Valentine’s Day. Artificial
politeness is simply an attempt to make others believe
we are something we are not, for just one day.
Isn’t it refreshing when someone with manners crosses
our path, especially now that crassness has practically
become the norm? When true politeness is genuinely part
of a person’s character, the outer trappings reveal the internal
reality. Manners do not necessarily come naturally. It’s the
response of the heart, of kindness, sincerity and truthfulness,
for which no amount of surface polish can be substituted. Part of beautiful
character is a heart filled with such honest intentions. We respond positively when an individual is attentive, kind, considerate and respectful
toward us. The old saying, “You get what you give,” rings true.
Good manners are developed through practice and a spirit of
generosity. When we realize that manners are the outward expression of inward virtues, rather like the hands of a watch indicating
that the machinery within is perfect and true, we’ll then understand
the power of applying the simple Golden Rule: do unto others as you
would have them do unto you.
Sometimes we meet and must do business with those
who are devoid of these noble qualities. On the other hand,
isn’t it refreshing when we meet an individual whose personality is like the warm rays of the summer sun?